Generational Wisdom: A Father and Son’s Guide to Leading with Integrity and Heart

What Happens When Generational Leadership Meets Real-World Experience?

n law enforcement and public service, leadership isn’t just about rank—it’s about legacy, trust, and the lessons we pass down. In Episode 40, we bring you a heartfelt conversation between host Mike McIntosh and his father, veteran superintendent John McIntosh. Together, they explore how generational wisdom, recognition, and integrity shape leaders who make a lasting impact.

From overcoming adversity to building trust and repairing broken relationships, this episode reveals the practical and personal side of leadership that every law enforcement leader needs to hear.

Key Moments

  • The Power of Mentorship: How a single teacher’s belief changed the course of a young man’s life—and why mentorship matters at every level.

  • From Struggle to Superintendent: John’s journey through hardship, family challenges, and the drive to serve with purpose.

  • Building Trust Across Generations: Why transparency, listening, and daily connection are essential for effective leadership.

  • Recognition That Resonates: The overlooked impact of appreciating every team member, from frontline officers to support staff.

  • Repairing Broken Trust: Real advice for leaders on owning mistakes, rebuilding credibility, and moving forward with integrity.

Don’t-Miss Highlights

  • Generational leadership isn’t just a buzzword—it’s the foundation for resilient, high-performing teams.

  • Recognition and appreciation are powerful tools for building morale and trust in any organization.

  • Balancing professional demands with family and wellness is possible—and essential—for sustainable leadership.

  • Effective leaders listen, connect, and never forget the people who make the mission possible.

memorable quotes

“Recognition isn’t just for the people in uniform—it’s for everyone who keeps the organization running.”

“Trust is built in the small moments—when you show up, listen, and let people know they matter.”

“Every leader makes mistakes. What matters is how you own them, learn, and move forward.”

“Family is the foundation. Without their support, true leadership is impossible.”

Why Does Generational Leadership Matter in Law Enforcement?


The lessons we pass down shape the future of our agencies. Episode 40 dives deep: generational leadership is about more than experience—it’s about building a culture of trust, recognition, and integrity that lasts.

Action Steps for Law Enforcement Leaders:

  1. Mentor the Next Generation: Share your story and invest in those coming up behind you.

  2. Recognize Every Role: Make appreciation a daily habit, not just an annual event.

  3. Model Integrity: Own your mistakes, repair trust, and lead with heart.

How Can Leaders Balance Family, Wellness, and the Demands of Service?

Leadership is a marathon, not a sprint. Episode 40 reveals: sustainable leadership means prioritizing wellness, leaning on family support, and setting boundaries that protect what matters most.

Action Steps for Law Enforcement Leaders:

  1. Prioritize Wellness: Find routines that keep you healthy—physically and mentally.

  2. Lean on Your Support System: Don’t take family for granted; nurture those relationships.

  3. Set Boundaries: Know when to step back so you can show up as your best self.

Why Is Recognition the Secret to Strong Teams?

Behind every successful agency are people who feel seen and valued. Episode 40 shows: recognition isn’t just nice—it’s necessary for morale, retention, and organizational excellence.

Action Steps for Law Enforcement Leaders:

  1. Make It Personal: Write a note, say thank you, and celebrate wins—big and small.

  2. Include Everyone: Don’t overlook support staff; their work is vital to your mission.

  3. Build a Culture of Appreciation: Recognition should be woven into the fabric of your agency.

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Find the full episode on our YouTube channel.

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